It is not over to be over 50!
When you have a hard time meeting anyone during your 20s, there’s a high possibility that dating will be trickier when your age is more than 50. Perhaps, most of your friends are now committed on long-term relationship or even marriage. With that, your social circle is not getting bigger anymore. More likely, you are not longer interested in attending a pub night weekly along with your sorority sisters.
Since there are fewer fish you can opt with and perhaps with a hectic schedule, keeping you from bumping along with your ‘Ultimate The One’, it could be the right time not to ignore the call of online dating. There are existing matchmaking sites, which will allow you to be more particular with whom you are searching for and the type of relationship you are after.
The secret to get the right companion for yourself is to be just yourself. You don’t need to fabricate any of your information, especially your age. Keep in mind that in 50 plus dating, the first step that you need to take is to be honest in order for you to get to know the other person much better.
Time’s up for dating?
Of course not! Don’t bother about that timeline. Bid goodbyes on the set of standards you’ve been following for so long and throw away that ticking clock as well. It is not bad to be inspired on marrying someone you truly love and having a happy family, however, it is not good either dating someone while you are being pressured on settling down.
Meeting the right person first is your priority here. Don’t rush things up. Or else, you will end up suffering with Mr. Wrong instead of living your life to the fullest with your ultimate Mr. Right. It is still important to spend your lifetime bounded by genuine happiness and love.
Don’t worry about your sex life!
Most likely, you are experiencing lots of barriers to fully enjoy sex now that your age is more than 50. Don’t let vaginal dryness or other medical conditions stop you from getting an active lifestyle. For instance, you can follow these handy tips to improve your sex life;
If you want to stay sexually active, you need to stick with it. Sex experts explained that the vagina becomes tighter and narrower when you are not using it. Thus, it’s vital for you to preserve its function through having sexual intercourse.
Lubricant is a good help.
Having a hard time dealing with painful sex? If that’s the case, use lubricants. Add a moisturizer to make sex more tolerable and enjoyable.
Certain medical conditions may prohibit you from doing extreme sexual activities. When this happens, apply your creativity as a couple. Why not try different positions to make your hanky panky session more comfortable and pleasurable?
Sex and dating after 50 is all about knowing if these two things are still an important part of a relationship for you. If your answer is yes, it pays to give yourself some considerable time and be consistent in meeting new, interesting and quality men you are looking for.